[Bug] LmqConsumerOffsetManager is not updated in enableSlaveActingMaster mode

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### Runtime platform environment

centos7

### RocketMQ version

5.3.3

### JDK Version

1.8

### Describe the Bug

主从模式下，启用enableSlaveActingMaster ，当master宕机后，客户端会从slave拉取消息并提交位点。
当master恢复后，会通过preOnline流程，反向同步slave的部分数据，包括消费进度。

在brokerController初始化中，dateVersion没有被更新，会导致master的版本一直领先slave，master无法同步到最新的消费进度

实际使用的

应该使用的

### Steps to Reproduce

1.启动1主1从
2,发送10条消息
3.kill master节点
4.从slave消费
5.启动master，查看消费进度

### What Did You Expect to See?

master同步到最新消费进度

### What Did You See Instead?

master没有同步消费进度

### Additional Context

_No response_