Please update the rocksdbjni jar to 9.6.1

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### Motivation

The latest releases still use a very old RocksDB version 7.9.2

The JAR file org.rocksdb-rocksdbjni-7.9.2.jar doesn't contain the FreeBSD binary and this causes Apache Pulsar to fail to run on FreeBSD.

We have the rocksdb-jni-9.6.1 package that contains the JAR file that can be a drop-in replacement for org.rocksdb-rocksdbjni, but it is only for the modern version of RocksDB 9.6.1

Could you please update Apache Pulse to use RocksDB 9.6.1 which would allow us to run it on FreeBSD?

Thank you,
Yuri

### Solution

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### Anything else?

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### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] I'm willing to submit a PR!

No files or tests are named in the issue. Start by locating Apache Pulsar's RocksDB JNI dependency declaration and review the compatibility impact of changing from 7.9.2 to 9.6.1; done means the newer JAR is used without regressions and Pulsar can run on FreeBSD.

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