[Bug] Unable to run locally using IntelliJ + Ventura MacOS

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- [X] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/pulsar/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Version

OS : 13.0.1 Ventura MacOS
Pulsar : 2.10.2
JDK : Eclipse Temurin-17
IntelliJ : 2022.2.1

### Minimal reproduce step

build.gradle.kts :
```
dependencies {
implementation(platform("org.jetbrains.kotlin:kotlin-bom"))
implementation("org.jetbrains.kotlinx:kotlinx-coroutines-core:1.6.4")
testImplementation("org.jetbrains.kotlin:kotlin-test")
testImplementation("org.jetbrains.kotlin:kotlin-test-junit")

implementation("io.ktor:ktor-server-netty:2.1.3")

implementation("org.apache.pulsar:pulsar-client:2.10.2")

```

also tried :
```
runtimeOnly("io.netty:netty-resolver-dns-classes-macos:4.1.85.Final")
runtimeOnly("io.netty:netty-resolver-dns-classes-macos:4.1.85.Final:osx-x86_64")
```

Main.kt :
```
Pulsar.client().use {
val producer = Pulsar.producer(it)
producer.send("message".toByteArray())
}
```

Pulsar.kt
```
object Pulsar {
private const val EVENTS_TOPIC = "topic"

internal fun client() = PulsarClient.builder().serviceUrl("pulsar://localhost:6650").build()

internal fun producer(client: PulsarClient): Producer {
return client
.newProducer()
.topic(EVENTS_TOPIC)
.create()
}
```

### What did you expect to see?

Being able to produce message (send messages through a producer)

### What did you see instead?

When trying to use a producer to send messages it says :
```
[pulsar-client-io-1-1] WARN org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ConnectionPool - Failed to open connection to localhost/:6650 : org.apache.pulsar.shade.io.netty.channel.AbstractChannel$AnnotatedConnectException: Connection refused: localhost/127.0.0.1:6650

[pulsar-client-scheduled-5-1] WARN org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.PulsarClientImpl - [topic: persistent://public/default/topic] Could not get connection while getPartitionedTopicMetadata -- Will try again in 100 ms

[pulsar-client-scheduled-5-1] DEBUG org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ConnectionPool - Connection for localhost/:6650 not found in cache
```

Also, I don't know if it's related, but I also get the following stacktrace when building a client :
```
[main] WARN org.apache.pulsar.shade.io.netty.resolver.dns.DnsServerAddressStreamProviders - Can not find org.apache.pulsar.shade.io.netty.resolver.dns.macos.MacOSDnsServerAddressStreamProvider in the classpath, fallback to system defaults. This may result in incorrect DNS resolutions on MacOS.
[main] WARN org.apache.pulsar.common.util.netty.DnsResolverUtil - Cannot get DNS TTL settings from sun.net.InetAddressCachePolicy class
java.lang.IllegalAccessException: class org.apache.pulsar.common.util.netty.DnsResolverUtil cannot access class sun.net.InetAddressCachePolicy (in module java.base) because module java.base does not export sun.net to unnamed module @3aefe5e5
at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.Reflection.newIllegalAccessException(Reflection.java:392)
at java.base/java.lang.reflect.AccessibleObject.checkAccess(AccessibleObject.java:674)
at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:560)
at org.apache.pulsar.common.util.netty.DnsResolverUtil.(DnsResolverUtil.java:46)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ConnectionPool.createAddressResolver(ConnectionPool.java:121)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ConnectionPool.lambda$new$1(ConnectionPool.java:109)
at java.base/java.util.Optional.orElseGet(Optional.java:364)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ConnectionPool.(ConnectionPool.java:109)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ConnectionPool.(ConnectionPool.java:78)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ConnectionPool.(ConnectionPool.java:73)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.PulsarClientImpl.(PulsarClientImpl.java:194)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.PulsarClientImpl.(PulsarClientImpl.java:150)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ClientBuilderImpl.build(ClientBuilderImpl.java:67)
at MainKt.main(Main.kt:72)
```

### Anything else?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] I'm willing to submit a PR!

Reproduce the client setup from build.gradle.kts, Main.kt, and Pulsar.kt on the stated macOS, JDK, and IntelliJ versions. Start by tracing the DNS and connection warnings through DnsResolverUtil, ConnectionPool, and ClientBuilderImpl, separating the refused localhost connection from the DNS provider warning. Done means the client builds without the relevant failure and the producer can send a message.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.