Pulsar-client: when send message size more than nettyMaxFrameSizeBytes and less than maxMessageSize ，will cause subsequent normal messages to be unable to be sent.

**Is your enhancement request related to a problem? Please describe.**
When the configuration maxMessageSize is greater than nettyMaxFrameSizeBytes, send message size more than nettyMaxFrameSizeBytes and less than maxMessageSize ，will cause subsequent normal messages to be unable to be sent.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
I think it can only affect the sending result of this message, and should not affect subsequent normal sending.

**Additional context**
* pulsar version
`apache-pulsar-2.11.0-SNAPSHOT`

* standalone.conf
```
maxMessageSize=5242880
nettyMaxFrameSizeBytes=10485760
```
* test code
```
StringBuilder data = new StringBuilder();
for(int i = 0 ;i< 1024 * 1024 * 7 ; i ++) {
data.append("a");
}
Producer producer= client.newProducer(Schema.STRING)
.topic(topic)
.create();
producer.newMessage().value(data.toString()).send();

```
* log

client.log
```
org.apache.pulsar.client.api.PulsarClientException$TimeoutException: The producer standalone-8-0 can not send message to the topic test within given timeout : createdAt 30.015 seconds ago, firstSentAt 30.014 seconds ago, lastSentAt 30.014 seconds ago, retryCount 1
at org.apache.pulsar.client.api.PulsarClientException.unwrap(PulsarClientException.java:1008)
at org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.TypedMessageBuilderImpl.send(TypedMessageBuilderImpl.java:91)
at com.sn.test.TestConsumer1.main(TestConsumer1.java:29)
```
broker.log

```
2022-07-18T11:16:26,595+0800 [bookie-io-9-24] ERROR org.apache.bookkeeper.proto.BookieRequestHandler - Unhandled exception occurred in I/O thread or handler on [id: 0x3ca495d3, L:/127.0.0.1:3181 - R:/127.0.0.1:60375]
io.netty.handler.codec.TooLongFrameException: Adjusted frame length exceeds 10485760: 15728766 - discarded
at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.fail(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:507) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.failIfNecessary(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:493) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.exceededFrameLength(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:377) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.decode(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:423) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.decode(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:333) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.decodeRemovalReentryProtection(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:510) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.callDecode(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:449) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.channelRead(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:279) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:379) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:365) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.fireChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:357) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline$HeadContext.channelRead(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:1410) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:379) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
2022-07-18T11:16:26,596+0800 [pulsar-io-28-5] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.proto.PerChannelBookieClient - Exception caught on:[id: 0x4a77fd5b, L:/127.0.0.1:60375 - R:/127.0.0.1:3181] cause:
java.net.SocketException: Connection reset
at sun.nio.ch.SocketChannelImpl.throwConnectionReset(SocketChannelImpl.java:394) ~[?:?]
at sun.nio.ch.SocketChannelImpl.read(SocketChannelImpl.java:426) ~[?:?]
at io.netty.buffer.PooledByteBuf.setBytes(PooledByteBuf.java:258) ~[io.netty-netty-buffer-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.buffer.AbstractByteBuf.writeBytes(AbstractByteBuf.java:1132) ~[io.netty-netty-buffer-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.socket.nio.NioSocketChannel.doReadBytes(NioSocketChannel.java:357) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.nio.AbstractNioByteChannel$NioByteUnsafe.read(AbstractNioByteChannel.java:151) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKey(NioEventLoop.java:722) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeysOptimized(NioEventLoop.java:658) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeys(NioEventLoop.java:584) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:496) ~[io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$4.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:995) ~[io.netty-netty-common-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.util.internal.ThreadExecutorMap$2.run(ThreadExecutorMap.java:74) ~[io.netty-netty-common-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at io.netty.util.concurrent.FastThreadLocalRunnable.run(FastThreadLocalRunnable.java:30) ~[io.netty-netty-common-4.1.77.Final.jar:4.1.77.Final]
at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:833) [?:?]
2022-07-18T11:16:26,597+0800 [pulsar-io-28-5] INFO org.apache.bookkeeper.proto.PerChannelBookieClient - Disconnected from bookie channel [id: 0x4a77fd5b, L:/127.0.0.1:60375 ! R:/127.0.0.1:3181]
2022-07-18T11:16:26,599+0800 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-10-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.PendingAddOp - Failed to write entry (405, 0): Bookie handle is not available
2022-07-18T11:16:26,603+0800 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-10-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl - Failed to find 1 bookies : excludeBookies [], allBookies [].
```

Reproduce the send sequence with maxMessageSize=5242880 and nettyMaxFrameSizeBytes=10485760, then trace the path from TypedMessageBuilderImpl.java through the client and broker logs. Check the TooLongFrameException in BookieRequestHandler and the resulting PerChannelBookieClient and PendingAddOp failures. Done means the oversized message fails without preventing subsequent normal messages from being sent.

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