[bugfix] fix stuck when ProducerBlockedQuotaExceededException

#### Expected behavior

fail fast when user call Send

#### Actual behavior

stuck in Send method

#### Steps to reproduce
1：set a 10MB backlog in pulsar topic
2：Infinite loop call partitionProducer.Send to produce msg to that topic
3：see the sdk output : [Failed to create producer at send PRODUCER request]" error="server error: ProducerBlockedQuotaExceededException: Cannot create producer on topic with backlog quota exceeded" producerID=1

#### System configuration
**Pulsar version**: x.y

Start with the partitionProducer.Send call and reproduce the 10 MB backlog-quota scenario using an infinite send loop. Trace how ProducerBlockedQuotaExceededException is reported during producer creation, and consider the issue done when Send fails fast instead of remaining stuck while the server rejects the producer.

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