Use ConfigOption withxxxx for simple usage

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now, when we use client 、producer、consumer, we must provide `ClientOption`, `ProducerOption` and `ConsumerOption`, but there are many params on Option, which puzzle users.
according to Rob Pike: https://commandcenter.blogspot.com/2014/01/self-referential-functions-and-design.html and Dave cheney: https://dave.cheney.net/2014/10/17/functional-options-for-friendly-apis , we should use WithXXX. for example:

```
type ClientOption func(opts ClientOptions)
func WithURL(URL string) ClientOption {
return func(opts ClientOptions) {
.....
}
}
```

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