[Bug] Acknowledge might fail with ResultAlreadyClosed during unload

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- [X] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/pulsar-client-cpp/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Version

main

### Minimal reproduce step

Enable `ackReceipt` for https://github.com/apache/pulsar-client-cpp/blob/main/tests/extensibleLM/ExtensibleLoadManagerTest.cc

```c++
ConsumerConfiguration consumerConf;
consumerConf.setAckReceiptEnabled(true);
Consumer consumer;
Result consumerResult = client.subscribe(topicName, "sub", consumerConf, consumer);
```

### What did you expect to see?

The test passed

### What did you see instead?

```
2024-02-27 21:51:30.938 WARN [0x16b36b000] AckGroupingTracker:93 | Connection is not ready, ACK failed for [(14,0,-1,-1)]
2024-02-27 21:51:30.938 INFO [0x16b96f000] ExtensibleLoadManagerTest:145 | acked i: 0 81 ms
/Users/xuyunze/github.com/bewaremypower/pulsar-client-cpp/tests/extensibleLM/ExtensibleLoadManagerTest.cc:147: Failure
Expected equality of these values:
ackResult
Which is: AlreadyClosed
ResultOk
Which is: Ok
```

Note: I changed the log level of `AckGroupingTracker:93` to warn locally.

### Anything else?

When `HandlerBase::getCnx()` returns a null `weak_ptr`, it's retryable if the state is not `Closing` or `Closed`. We should schedule the flush again.

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [X] I'm willing to submit a PR!