parquet-hadoop tests to work with hadoop 3.4.0

Test runs of parquet-hadoop with `-Dhadoop.version=3.4.0` fail because there's a logback jar on the classpath, which screws things up (mostly seemingly because it suddenly logs at debug)

HADOOP-19084 should have fixed this, as it explicitly excludes the export. clearly not. created HADOOP-19153 as a followup.

For now, all parquet needs is to exclude logback as a hadoop-common dependency. I'll be extra cautious and get rid of all log dependencies.

**Reporter**: [Steve Loughran](https://issues.apache.org/jira/secure/ViewProfile.jspa?name=stevel@apache.org) / @steveloughran
#### Related issues:
- [hadoop-common still exports logback as a transitive dependency](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HADOOP-19153) (relates to)
#### PRs and other links:
- [GitHub Pull Request #1321](https://github.com/apache/parquet-mr/pull/1321)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [PARQUET-2459](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/PARQUET-2459). Please see the [migration documentation](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/PARQUET-2502) for further details.*}

Start with the parquet-hadoop test setup and dependency configuration, then run the tests with -Dhadoop.version=3.4.0 to reproduce the classpath problem. Check that the Hadoop dependency no longer brings the unwanted logging jars into the test classpath and that the tests pass; HADOOP-19153 and pull request #1321 provide context for work already underway.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.