Provide a ByteBuffer based write path

Similar to the effort to use a ByteBuffer in the read path, we should provide a path to use a ByteBuffer in the write path.

The proposed idea is to provide an allocator in the writer that is passed down to CapacityByteArrayOutputStream and is used to allocate a ByteBuffer instead of the byte array that it currently uses.

I've attached a patch based on the 1.5 release that does that. There are two implementations of the allocator - one for Heap memory and one for Direct memory. In addition, the allocator interface allows for a 'release' method so that reference counted memory allocators like Netty's ByteBuf can be used to provide an allocator.

**Reporter**: [Parth Chandra](https://issues.apache.org/jira/secure/ViewProfile.jspa?name=parthc) / @parthchandra
#### Related issues:
- [Move off of Parquet fork](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/DRILL-1410) (is depended upon by)

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