[Bug] upgrade Jackson due to security hardening fixes

### Search before asking

- [x] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/paimon/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Paimon version

https://github.com/search?q=repo%3Aapache%2Fpaimon%202.14&type=code

I would recommend upgrading to 2.21.1 (or later). 2.18.x and 2.21.x have Long term Support. 2.14 is no longer supported.

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### Minimal reproduce step

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### What doesn't meet your expectations?

use up to date dependencies

### Anything else?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] I'm willing to submit a PR!

Start by locating the project’s Jackson dependency declarations and checking how version 2.14 is currently specified. Compare the available 2.21.1-or-later version, update the relevant declarations, and run the project’s existing build and tests to confirm dependency compatibility.

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