[Bug] io.debezium.DebeziumException: Failed to deserialize data of EventHeaderV4 when loading data to paimon from mysql using paimon cdc ingestion

### Search before asking

- [x] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/paimon/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Paimon version

0.9

### Compute Engine

Flink 1.20

### Minimal reproduce step

1: Create a flink cdc paimon job to load data from mysql to paimon
2: Write data to the source in mysql
Config:
"mysql_sync_database",
"--warehouse", "",
"--database" , "",
"--mysql_conf", "hostname=",
"--mysql_conf", "port=",
"--mysql_conf", "username=USER",
"--mysql_conf", "password=PASSWORD",
"--mysql_conf", "database-name=DATABASE_NAME",
"--mysql_conf", "server-id=",
"--mysql_conf", "server-time-zone=",
"--including_tables", "",
"--catalog_conf", "metastore=filesystem",
"--catalog_conf", "case-sensitive=false",
"--table_conf", "bucket=-1",
"--table_conf", "changelog-producer=input"

### What doesn't meet your expectations?

No error message pop out and load data to the paimon table

### Anything else?

Erro log message:

java.lang.RuntimeException: One or more fetchers have encountered exception
at org.apache.flink.connector.base.source.reader.fetcher.SplitFetcherManager.checkErrors(SplitFetcherManager.java:333)
at org.apache.flink.connector.base.source.reader.SourceReaderBase.getNextFetch(SourceReaderBase.java:228)
at org.apache.flink.connector.base.source.reader.SourceReaderBase.pollNext(SourceReaderBase.java:190)
at org.apache.flink.connector.base.source.reader.SourceReaderBase.pollNext(SourceReaderBase.java:216)
at org.apache.flink.streaming.api.operators.SourceOperator.emitNext(SourceOperator.java:422)
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.io.StreamTaskSourceInput.emitNext(StreamTaskSourceInput.java:68)
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.io.StreamOneInputProcessor.processInput(StreamOneInputProcessor.java:65)
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTask.processInput(StreamTask.java:638)
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.mailbox.MailboxProcessor.runMailboxLoop(MailboxProcessor.java:231)
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTask.runMailboxLoop(StreamTask.java:973)
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTask.invoke(StreamTask.java:917)
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.runWithSystemExitMonitoring(Task.java:970)
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.restoreAndInvoke(Task.java:949)
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.doRun(Task.java:763)
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.run(Task.java:575)
at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source)
Caused by: java.lang.RuntimeException: SplitFetcher thread 0 received unexpected exception while polling the records
at org.apache.flink.connector.base.source.reader.fetcher.SplitFetcher.runOnce(SplitFetcher.java:168)
at org.apache.flink.connector.base.source.reader.fetcher.SplitFetcher.run(SplitFetcher.java:117)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.Executors$RunnableAdapter.call(Unknown Source)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.FutureTask.run(Unknown Source)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(Unknown Source)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(Unknown Source)
... 1 more
Caused by: org.apache.flink.cdc.connectors.shaded.org.apache.kafka.connect.errors.ConnectException: An exception occurred in the change event producer. This connector will be stopped.
at io.debezium.pipeline.ErrorHandler.setProducerThrowable(ErrorHandler.java:50)
at org.apache.flink.cdc.connectors.mysql.debezium.task.context.MySqlErrorHandler.setProducerThrowable(MySqlErrorHandler.java:86)
at io.debezium.connector.mysql.MySqlStreamingChangeEventSource$ReaderThreadLifecycleListener.onCommunicationFailure(MySqlStreamingChangeEventSource.java:1545)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.BinaryLogClient.listenForEventPackets(BinaryLogClient.java:1079)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.BinaryLogClient.connect(BinaryLogClient.java:631)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.BinaryLogClient$7.run(BinaryLogClient.java:932)
... 1 more
Caused by: io.debezium.DebeziumException: Failed to deserialize data of EventHeaderV4{timestamp=, eventType=EXT_DELETE_ROWS, serverId=, headerLength=, dataLength=, nextPosition=, flags=0}
at io.debezium.connector.mysql.MySqlStreamingChangeEventSource.wrap(MySqlStreamingChangeEventSource.java:1489)
... 5 more
Caused by: com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.EventDataDeserializationException: Failed to deserialize data of EventHeaderV4{timestamp=, eventType=EXT_DELETE_ROWS, serverId=, headerLength=, dataLength=, nextPosition=, flags=0}
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.EventDeserializer.deserializeEventData(EventDeserializer.java:341)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.EventDeserializer.nextEvent(EventDeserializer.java:244)
at io.debezium.connector.mysql.MySqlStreamingChangeEventSource$1.nextEvent(MySqlStreamingChangeEventSource.java:259)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.BinaryLogClient.listenForEventPackets(BinaryLogClient.java:1051)
... 3 more
Caused by: java.io.EOFException: Failed to read remaining 92 of 112 bytes from position . Block length:. Initial block length:.
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.io.ByteArrayInputStream.fill(ByteArrayInputStream.java:115)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.io.ByteArrayInputStream.read(ByteArrayInputStream.java:105)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.AbstractRowsEventDataDeserializer.deserializeBlob(AbstractRowsEventDataDeserializer.java:403)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.AbstractRowsEventDataDeserializer.deserializeCell(AbstractRowsEventDataDeserializer.java:191)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.AbstractRowsEventDataDeserializer.deserializeRow(AbstractRowsEventDataDeserializer.java:143)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.DeleteRowsEventDataDeserializer.deserializeRows(DeleteRowsEventDataDeserializer.java:64)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.DeleteRowsEventDataDeserializer.deserialize(DeleteRowsEventDataDeserializer.java:56)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.DeleteRowsEventDataDeserializer.deserialize(DeleteRowsEventDataDeserializer.java:32)
at com.github.shyiko.mysql.binlog.event.deserialization.EventDeserializer.deserializeEventData(EventDeserializer.java:335)
... 6 more

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] I'm willing to submit a PR!

Start by reproducing the MySQL-to-Paimon CDC job with the listed Paimon 0.9, Flink 1.20, and mysql_sync_database configuration. Trace the failure from MySqlStreamingChangeEventSource through EventDeserializer and the EXT_DELETE_ROWS deserialization stack; done means the job loads the affected data without the reported DebeziumException.

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