[Bug] flink database sync action can not deal `excludedTables` when too many tables

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- [X] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/incubator-paimon/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Paimon version

master

### Compute Engine

flink

### Minimal reproduce step

1. start a flink database sync action.
2. If the database has over 1000 tables ,but the user only wants to synchronize one table , `excludedTables` will include all other tables
3. `excludingPattern` [will become too long to exceed the max length of the Java variable](https://github.com/apache/incubator-paimon/blob/15db061c168abf310e8536b317b9a25395df761e/paimon-flink/paimon-flink-common/src/main/java/org/apache/paimon/flink/action/cdc/mysql/MySqlSyncDatabaseAction.java#L422)

### What doesn't meet your expectations?


### Anything else?

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### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] I'm willing to submit a PR!

Start in paimon-flink/paimon-flink-common/src/main/java/org/apache/paimon/flink/action/cdc/mysql/MySqlSyncDatabaseAction.java, especially the code around line 422 that builds excludingPattern. Reproduce the database sync with more than 1000 tables while selecting one table, then verify the action handles the resulting pattern without exceeding Java's length limit.

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