[Feature] add some extra core table conf params under the CDC Ingestion with whole db synchronize mode

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- [X] I searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/incubator-paimon/issues) and found nothing similar.

### Motivation

Due to difference data rows range between tables in a MySQL database, we hope to **customize some table parameters** （such as bucket, sink parallelism, etc) during the synchronization of the entire CDC database .

as below:
orginal code :
/bin/flink run \
/path/to/paimon-flink-action-0.5-SNAPSHOT.jar \
mysql-sync-database \
--warehouse hdfs:///path/to/warehouse \
--database test_db \
--mysql-conf hostname=127.0.0.1 \
--mysql-conf username=root \
--mysql-conf password=123456 \
--mysql-conf database-name=source_db \
--catalog-conf metastore=hive \
--catalog-conf uri=thrift://hive-metastore:9083 \
--table-conf bucket=1 \
--table-conf changelog-producer=input \
--table-conf sink.parallelism=1 \
--including-tables 'product|user|address|order'

**add some extral table conf params like "--including-tables-buckets" and “--including-tables-sink.parallelism” :**
/bin/flink run \
/path/to/paimon-flink-action-0.5-SNAPSHOT.jar \
mysql-sync-database \
--warehouse hdfs:///path/to/warehouse \
--database test_db \
--mysql-conf hostname=127.0.0.1 \
--mysql-conf username=root \
--mysql-conf password=123456 \
--mysql-conf database-name=source_db \
--catalog-conf metastore=hive \
--catalog-conf uri=thrift://hive-metastore:9083 \
--table-conf bucket=1 \
--table-conf changelog-producer=input \
--table-conf sink.parallelism=1 \
--including-tables 'product|user|address|order' \
**--including-tables-buckets 'user:2|order:3'** \
**--including-tables-sink.parallelism 'order:3'**

### Solution

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### Anything else?

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### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] I'm willing to submit a PR!

Start by locating the mysql-sync-database entry point and the existing handling for --including-tables and --table-conf. Trace how table settings are applied during whole-database CDC synchronization, then define how the requested per-table bucket and sink.parallelism parameters should be parsed and applied. Done means the example mappings work without changing the defaults for other tables.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.