Unrecognized option --start-java-language-server=stdio

### Apache NetBeans version

Apache NetBeans 21

### What happened

I'm trying to start java.lsp.server for using with nvim. `bin/netbeans -h` says
```
Additional module options:
--start-java-language-server [] Starts the Java Language Server
```
but when I'm trying `bin/netbeans --start-java-language-server=stdio` or `bin/netbeans --modules --start-java-language-server=stdio`I get exception
```
Unrecognized option --start-java-language-server=stdio
```

### Language / Project Type / NetBeans Component

LSP

### How to reproduce

run `bin/netbeans --modules --start-java-language-server=stdio`

### Did this work correctly in an earlier version?

No / Don't know

### Operating System

Fedora 39

### JDK

openjdk 21

### Apache NetBeans packaging

Apache NetBeans binary zip

### Anything else

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a pull request?

No

Start with the bin/netbeans entry point and compare the documented --start-java-language-server option from `bin/netbeans -h` with how command-line options are parsed. Reproduce `bin/netbeans --modules --start-java-language-server=stdio`; done means the documented stdio invocation is accepted without the unrecognized-option exception.

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