[VSCode Netbeans] Add setting option "revealActiveInWorkspace"

### Description

At the moment, every file selected in the project view is automatically revealed in the workspace view. There should be a setting option to enable/disable this behavior.

### Use case/motivation

In projects where the Workspace view is used for overview of other data, the default behavior can be confusing and eventually annoying.

### Related issues

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a pull request?

No

The issue does not name files, tests, or entry points. Start by locating the project-view selection handling, the workspace-view reveal behavior, and the existing settings definitions; done means a setting can enable or disable automatic revealing and the behavior is covered by appropriate tests.

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