complex Query cause luene outMemory [LUCENE-5917]

RangeQuery, prefixQuery and WildcardQuery use FixedBitSet when TERM_COUNT >= 350 or DOC_COUNT_PERCENT >=0.1.
It use a lots of memory when maxDoc very large.

MultiTermQueryWrapperFilter<Q extends MultiTermQuery> extends Filter

a little threads run with query "a\* OR b\* OR c\*.....OR z\*“ will cause luene outMemory, but there is no ways to prevent it.

another thing, some complex query also use a lot of memory too..

I think query implements Accountable(#ramSizeInBytes, #ramBytesUsed), users can throw a exception better than OutOfMemory.

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Migrated from [LUCENE-5917](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/LUCENE-5917) by Littlestar
Environment:
```
256G RAM + 1.5T SSD + 1.2T DATA(10*10000*10000 records).
java heap=128G, G1 GC

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Start with the reported RangeQuery, PrefixQuery, WildcardQuery, and MultiTermQueryWrapperFilter classes, then review the linked LUCENE-5917 report and its memory conditions. Reproduce the complex wildcard-query case if possible and determine how memory usage should be accounted for; done requires an agreed way to prevent or report exhaustion without relying on an OutOfMemoryError.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.