action failures sent to builds@lucene.apache.org

### Description

Some actions that run against `main`, e.g. on every push, nightly release smoketest and other maintenance tasks. It would be nice if failures were sent to `builds@` mailing list.

Currently the notifications are only sent to individuals? My concern is that only those individuals are seeing the issues and debugging them. If we sent the failures to the `builds@` list, we could share the love.

https://docs.github.com/en/actions/monitoring-and-troubleshooting-workflows/monitoring-workflows/notifications-for-workflow-runs

I'm not sure if something like `actions/send-email` is needed for this, but it is one idea.

Start with the linked GitHub Actions workflow notifications documentation and inspect the repository's workflows for actions running on main, nightly release smoketests, and maintenance tasks. Compare available email actions, then verify that failures from the relevant workflows reach builds@lucene.apache.org rather than only individual recipients.

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