[Bug] spark.authenticate.secret is not picked up in spark standalone with cluster mode

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### Describe the bug

Hi,

Thanks for a great program!

When running a spark standalone cluster with security enable, it fails with:
```
java.lang.IllegalArgumentException: requirement failed: A secret key must be specified via the spark.authenticate.secret config.
```
though it works with client mode.

I believe the issue is this: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-25078 (marked as resolved, but it's not according to the last comment.)

Do you think it would be possible to implement that workaround described there?

### Affects Version(s)

1.11.0

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### Kyuubi Server Configurations

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### Additional context

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [x] Yes. I would be willing to submit a PR with guidance from the Kyuubi community to fix.
- [ ] No. I cannot submit a PR at this time.

Start by reproducing the failure with Spark standalone in cluster mode and compare it with the working client-mode path. Read the workaround described in SPARK-25078 and trace how Kyuubi passes spark.authenticate.secret; done means the secret is picked up in cluster mode without regressing client mode.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.