[Bug] DataGrip executes refresh command slowly

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### Describe the bug

When DataGrip executes refresh, I see that the following operations have been performed, mainly table list operations and table columns operations are time-consuming. Currently, my test results show that it takes four minutes to complete refresh.

Operations：
Routine list in database
Table list in database
Table columns in database
Keys in database.table

### Affects Version(s)

1.10.0

### Kyuubi Server Log Output

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### Kyuubi Engine Log Output

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### Kyuubi Server Configurations

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### Kyuubi Engine Configurations

```yaml
spark.master yarn
spark.yarn.queue default
spark.executor.cores 1
spark.driver.memory 3g
spark.executor.memory 3g
spark.dynamicAllocation.enabled true
spark.dynamicAllocation.shuffleTracking.enabled true
spark.dynamicAllocation.minExecutors 1
spark.dynamicAllocation.maxExecutors 10
spark.dynamicAllocation.initialExecutors 1
spark.cleaner.periodicGC.interval 5min
```

### Additional context

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [ ] Yes. I would be willing to submit a PR with guidance from the Kyuubi community to fix.
- [ ] No. I cannot submit a PR at this time.

Reproduce the DataGrip refresh against Kyuubi 1.10.0 using the supplied Spark engine settings, and measure the routine, table, column, and key metadata operations listed in the report. Trace the slow requests through the Kyuubi server and engine; done means the reported four-minute refresh delay is reduced and the affected operations have evidence of the improvement.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.