[TASK][MEDIUM] Configurable NICs(Network Interface Cards) selection strategy

### What's the level of this task?

MEDIUM

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### Skill requirements

- Familiar with Kyuubi architecture
- Knowledge of Scala language and network programming

### Background and Goals

In some environments, e.g. AliCloud ADB Spark cluster, it has multiple NICs(Network Interface Cards), Kyuubi uses [findLocalInetAddress](https://github.com/apache/kyuubi/blob/master/kyuubi-common/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/Utils.scala#L257) to find the first non-loopback address to bind, this may cause network issues. See details in https://github.com/apache/kyuubi/issues/3409

### Implementation steps

As title, we need flexible configurations to allow users to choose different NICs.

Note: The task level is set to MEDIUM because I want a flexible and extendable design, including docs and at least one real-world case.

### Additional context

Introduction of [2024H1 Kyuubi Code Contribution Program](https://github.com/apache/kyuubi/issues/6232)

Start at findLocalInetAddress in kyuubi-common/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/Utils.scala and review issue 3409 for the network failure context. Define an extensible configuration approach for selecting NICs, document it, and include at least one real-world case as described in the task.

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