[TASK][MEDIUM] Refactor ConfigEntry to replace serverOnly with engineRequired

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### Skill requirements

- Basic knowledge on Scala Programing Language
- High Level knowledge of Kyuubi architecture
- Familiar with Kyuubi and each engine's configuration

### Background and Goals

Kyuubi is mainly composed of two components: Server and Engine. Some configurations take effect on both Server and Engine, but some only take effect on Server or specific Engine.

The Server picks up configurations from `kyuubi-defaults.conf` and passes them to the command line during the launching engine process, including some sensitive data. To overcome it, we introduce a `serverOnly` flag on each configuration's definition.

### Implementation steps

Replace the `serverOnly` flag with `requiredByEngines(...)` and `requiredByAllEngines`, so that we can only pass the required configurations to each engine.

Note: we should always bypass the unknown properties to the engine in case some user custom properties do not take effect.

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