[Bug] KyuubiSparkSQLExtension will cause shuffle write data size expand too much

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### Describe the bug

1、kyuubi1.7.1 、kyuubi-extension-spark-3-3_2.12-1.7.1.jar (download from maven)、spark 3.3.3
2、insert into ... select ... statment
3、if I user AQE and KyuubiSparkSQLExtension, the Exchange node is RoundRobinPartitioning, and shuffle write data size expand very large, I finally cancel the query

4、if I not use KyuubiSparkSQLExtension

5、I'm I get the wrong way to use KyuubiSparkSQLExtension?

### Affects Version(s)

1.7.1

### Kyuubi Server Log Output

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### Kyuubi Engine Log Output

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### Kyuubi Server Configurations

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### Kyuubi Engine Configurations

```yaml
##AQE Adaptive Query Execution
spark.sql.adaptive.enabled true
spark.sql.adaptive.forceApply false
spark.sql.adaptive.logLevel info
spark.sql.adaptive.advisoryPartitionSizeInBytes 256m
spark.sql.adaptive.coalescePartitions.enabled true
spark.sql.adaptive.coalescePartitions.minPartitionNum 1
spark.sql.adaptive.coalescePartitions.initialPartitionNum 2000
spark.sql.adaptive.fetchShuffleBlocksInBatch true
spark.sql.adaptive.localShuffleReader.enabled true
spark.sql.adaptive.skewJoin.enabled true
spark.sql.adaptive.skewJoin.skewedPartitionFactor 5
spark.sql.adaptive.skewJoin.skewedPartitionThresholdInBytes 400MB
spark.sql.adaptive.nonEmptyPartitionRatioForBroadcastJoin 0.2
spark.sql.adaptive.autoBroadcastJoinThreshold 100MB
spark.sql.adaptive.maxShuffledHashJoinLocalMapThreshold 400MB
spark.sql.autoBroadcastJoinThreshold -1

#spark.sql.extensions org.apache.kyuubi.plugin.spark.authz.ranger.RangerSparkExtension,org.apache.iceberg.spark.extensions.IcebergSparkSessionExtensions,org.apache.kyuubi.sql.KyuubiSparkSQLExtension
spark.sql.extensions org.apache.kyuubi.plugin.spark.authz.ranger.RangerSparkExtension,org.apache.iceberg.spark.extensions.IcebergSparkSessionExtensions
```

### Additional context

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [ ] Yes. I would be willing to submit a PR with guidance from the Kyuubi community to fix.
- [ ] No. I cannot submit a PR at this time.

Start by reproducing the reported INSERT INTO ... SELECT behavior on Kyuubi 1.7.1 with Spark 3.3.3, AQE enabled, and KyuubiSparkSQLExtension enabled and disabled. Compare the Exchange node and shuffle write size using the supplied engine configuration; done means identifying whether the extension causes the excessive shuffle and documenting or fixing the cause.

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