[Improvement] RuleApplyRowFilterAndDataMasking supports column pruning

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### What would you like to be improved?

If table t has 100 columns and the query only fetch 2 columns, e.g.
```
SELECT c1, c2 FROM t
```
We can get column AccessRequest for c1 and c2 instead of all columns.

It can improve performance with wide table.

### How should we improve?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [ ] Yes. I can submit a PR independently to improve.
- [ ] Yes. I would be willing to submit a PR with guidance from the Kyuubi community to improve.
- [ ] No. I cannot submit a PR at this time.

Start by locating RuleApplyRowFilterAndDataMasking and the AccessRequest definition, then trace how the query’s selected columns reach the rule. Verify the change with the relevant existing tests, ensuring a query such as SELECT c1, c2 FROM t requests access only for c1 and c2 rather than every column.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.