[Umbrella] Set table owner to kyuubi.session.user when create table

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### Describe the proposal

When run Kyuubi Spark SQL Engine in GROUP or SERVER mode, newly-created table's owner defaults to engine launch user.
However, some people may want to set table owner to Kyuubi session user.

We should support this behavior in KyuubiSparkExtension and provide a conf to enable/disable it.

### Task list

- [ ] #3698
- [ ] ~~#3707~~

### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [X] Yes. I can submit a PR independently to improve.
- [ ] Yes. I would be willing to submit a PR with guidance from the Kyuubi community to improve.
- [ ] No. I cannot submit a PR at this time.

Start with KyuubiSparkExtension and review the umbrella tasks #3698 and #3707 to understand the intended implementation. Done means GROUP or SERVER mode can optionally set newly created table ownership to kyuubi.session.user through a configuration switch, with the enabled and disabled behaviors covered by the relevant tests.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.