secretKey 默认值 如何修改自定义密码

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The issue names only the secretKey default and asks how to customize it; it does not identify a file, module, configuration entry point, or expected behavior. First clarify which Seata component and deployment configuration are involved, then locate the existing secretKey handling and define the supported customization and its validation before implementation.

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