io.seata.core.rpc.netty.NettyRemotingServer#registerProcessor代码建议优化

## Why you need it?
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将硬性编码转成用SPI进行解耦和扩展,使用getMessageTypes()方法来获取类型,进行注册到processorTable中

## How it could be?
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`List processors = ServicLoader.load(RemotingProcessor.class);
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Start at io.seata.core.rpc.netty.NettyRemotingServer#registerProcessor and inspect how RemotingProcessor instances and processorTable are currently handled. Review the proposed ServiceLoader flow and getMessageTypes(); done means processor implementations can be discovered through SPI and their message types are registered correctly without the existing hard-coded coupling.

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