DataFile Serialization for REST Scan Planning

Related to #2775

In order to support, scan planning for the REST catalog. The API returns file scan tasks as JSON, and I need to deserialize them into DataFile and DeleteFile objects. The API returns JSON like this:
```
{
"plan-status": "completed",
"delete-files": [
{
"spec-id": 0,
"content": "position-deletes",
"file-path": "s3://bucket/deletes.parquet",
"file-format": "parquet",
"partition": ["test"],
"file-size-in-bytes": 1529,
"record-count": 1,
"column-sizes": {"keys": [2147483546], "values": [134]},
"lower-bounds": {"keys": [2147483546], "values": ["73333A2F..."]},
...
}
],
"file-scan-tasks": [
{
"data-file": {
"spec-id": 0,
"content": "data",
"file-path": "s3://bucket/data.parquet",
...
},
"delete-file-references": [0],
"residual-filter": true
}
]
}
```
The format is defined in the https://github.com/apache/iceberg/blob/main/open-api/rest-catalog-open-api.yaml#L4337-L4389, and Java parses it via [ContentFileParser.java](https://github.com/apache/iceberg/blob/main/core/src/main/java/org/apache/iceberg/ContentFileParser.java).

## Issue

The REST API representation differs from our internal representation:
- Partition is unbound `["test"]` instead of a Record
- Maps are `{"keys": [...], "values": [...]}` instead of `{key: value}`
- Bounds are primitives (bytes, hex)
- content is `position-deletes` string instead of enum int

The current state of our python DataFile:

- Extends `Record` (for Avro compatibility)
- Uses positional array access (`_data[pos]`)
- Constructed via `DataFile.from_args()` factory
- Tightly coupled to Avro reader/writer via `StructProtocol`

Our DataFile isn't Pydantic, so we can't just do DataFile.model_validate(json) with validators to handle these conversions. Also, DataFile handles both data files and delete files via the content field. So it's really a `content file`.

## Options

**1. Translation layer (`RestContentFile`)**

Create a separate Pydantic model that parses JSON with validators, then converts to `DataFile`.

__Pros:__

- Clean separation of concerns
- No risk to Avro code path
- Easy to test independently

__Cons:__

- Significant code duplication (all fields defined twice)
- Maintenance burden (keep two classes in sync)
- Conversion overhead
- I've prototyped this [here](https://github.com/geruh/iceberg-python/blob/11ea47487e8f428585b17e6dd912df3c57041359/pyiceberg/rest/models.py#L83) and it's quite verbose

__Example:__

```
class RestContentFile(IcebergBaseModel):
# All fields with validators...
content: str # Validates and converts to our content enum
partition: list[Any] # Unbound values

def to_datafile(self) -> DataFile:
# Manual conversion logic...
```

**2. Make DataFile Pydantic**
Then it could parse JSON directly with pydantic.

The Challenge with this is that DataFile is coupled to Avro for fields, and extends Record. the Avro reader constructs objects with positional args like `DataFile(None, None, ...)` then fills by index. We'd need to converge here.

**3. Manual parsing**

Transform raw JSON dict manually and construct `DataFile` without Pydantic.

__Pros:__
- No duplication
- Full control over conversion
- Simple and don't need to mess with existing avro functionality

__Cons:__
- Lose Pydantic's validation benefits

## Reccomendation

I'm Leaning towards B, as it would reduce a lot of duplication. However, it seems can't directly extend both Record and BaseModel due to a metaclass conflict.

I'm Leaning towards option 2 since it would reduce a lot of duplication. However, we can't directly extend both Record and BaseModel due to a metaclass conflict, but we can implement the same StructProtocol interface:

```
class DataFile(IcebergBaseModel):
content: DataFileContent = Field(default=DataFileContent.DATA)
file_path: str = Field(alias="file-path")
file_format: FileFormat = Field(alias="file-format")
# fields with validators for pydantic conversion

# Field order must match DATA_FILE_TYPE for Avro StructProtocol compatibility.
# The Avro reader/writer accesses fields by position, not name.
_FIELD_ORDER: ClassVar[tuple[str, ...]] = ("content", "file_path", ...)

def __new__(cls, *args, **kwargs):
if args and not kwargs:
# Positional args from Avro reader and bypass validation
return cls.model_construct(**dict(zip(cls._FIELD_ORDER, args)))
return super().__new__(cls)

# StructProtocol interface
def __getitem__(self, pos: int):
return getattr(self, self._FIELD_ORDER[pos])

def __setitem__(self, pos: int, value):
setattr(self, self._FIELD_ORDER[pos], value)

def __len__(self):
return len(self._FIELD_ORDER)
```

But ultimately, I wanted to get input before making changes since this touches a core model. Open to suggestions on the approach.

cc: @Fokko @kevinjqliu @HonahX