[SUPPORT]Spark on K8s can not stop pod by setting set hoodie.write.concurrency.mode=optimistic_concurrency_control;

Hello, I have meet some error for **spark-on-k8s-operator**.
My hudi version is 0.13,spark version is 3.3.2
I find the pod logs show the task is Successfully，but pod status is still Running?

my sql setting is
`set spark.sql.shuffle.partitions=600;
set hoodie.insert.shuffle.parallelism=600;
set hoodie.upsert.shuffle.parallelism=600;
set hoodie.write.concurrency.mode=optimistic_concurrency_control;
set hoodie.cleaner.policy.failed.writes=LAZY;
set hoodie.write.lock.provider=org.apache.hudi.hive.transaction.lock.HiveMetastoreBasedLockProvider;
set hoodie.write.lock.hivemetastore.database=zone_test;
set hoodie.write.lock.hivemetastore.table=dwd_event_detail_refresh_hi5;`

if my sql setting is only
`set spark.sql.shuffle.partitions=600;
set hoodie.insert.shuffle.parallelism=600;
set hoodie.upsert.shuffle.parallelism=600;`
it can worker stop normal.


Does hudi something settings conf can't use on k8s?

Start with the spark-on-k8s-operator pod logs and compare the two SQL configuration sets, using the reported Hudi 0.13 and Spark 3.3.2 versions. Reproduce the case with optimistic concurrency control and the Hive metastore lock settings; done means explaining why the pod remains Running or confirming the relevant configuration limitation.

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