Throw NegativeArraySizeException in Flink Segment

### Bug Description

**What happened:**
flink: 1.16
hudi: 0.13.1 with https://github.com/apache/hudi/pull/12967
we use https://github.com/apache/hudi/pull/12967 in our inner branch, our record is 400kb avg size, the default `write.memory.segment.page.size` is 32kb. we found during the flush, it frequently throws the following exception, causing data to fail to be written normally, but if we set `write.memory.segment.page.size` 500kb, the exception will no longer occur.
```shell
Caused by: java.lang.RuntimeException: java.lang.NegativeArraySizeException: -2063597517
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:72)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:37)
at org.apache.hudi.jd.org.apache.parquet.hadoop.InternalParquetRecordWriter.write(InternalParquetRecordWriter.java:138)
at org.apache.hudi.jd.org.apache.parquet.hadoop.ParquetWriter.write(ParquetWriter.java:310)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.HoodieBaseParquetWriter.write(HoodieBaseParquetWriter.java:175)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.writeRow(HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.java:45)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.LSMHoodieRowDataCreateHandle.writeRow(LSMHoodieRowDataCreateHandle.java:235)
... 12 more
Caused by: java.lang.NegativeArraySizeException: -2063597517
at org.apache.flink.table.data.binary.BinarySegmentUtils.getBytes(BinarySegmentUtils.java:296)
at org.apache.flink.table.data.binary.BinaryStringData.toBytes(BinaryStringData.java:112)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter$StringWriter.write(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:266)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter$ArrayWriter.doWrite(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:532)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter$ArrayWriter.write(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:503)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter.write(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:95)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:70)
... 18 more
```

**What you expected:**
when `write.memory.segment.page.size` is 32kb can still write data

**Steps to reproduce:**
we can't reprodut the same exception, but have a similar one.
branch: master
flink: 1.18
UT: TestWriteCopyOnWrite&testInsertWithSmallBufferSize
env1: write.memory.segment.page.size = 32
```shell
Caused by: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException
at org.apache.hudi.common.util.queue.SimpleExecutor.execute(SimpleExecutor.java:73)
at org.apache.hudi.execution.FlinkLazyInsertIterable.computeNext(FlinkLazyInsertIterable.java:65)
... 23 more
Caused by: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException
at org.apache.hudi.io.BaseCreateHandle.doWrite(BaseCreateHandle.java:122)
at org.apache.hudi.io.HoodieWriteHandle.write(HoodieWriteHandle.java:240)
at org.apache.hudi.execution.ExplicitWriteHandler.consume(ExplicitWriteHandler.java:48)
at org.apache.hudi.execution.ExplicitWriteHandler.consume(ExplicitWriteHandler.java:34)
at org.apache.hudi.common.util.queue.SimpleExecutor.execute(SimpleExecutor.java:67)
... 24 more
Caused by: java.lang.RuntimeException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:71)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:37)
at org.apache.parquet.hadoop.InternalParquetRecordWriter.write(InternalParquetRecordWriter.java:138)
at org.apache.parquet.hadoop.ParquetWriter.write(ParquetWriter.java:310)
at org.apache.hudi.io.hadoop.HoodieBaseParquetWriter.write(HoodieBaseParquetWriter.java:149)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.writeRow(HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.java:68)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.writeRowWithMetaData(HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.java:76)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.HoodieRowDataFileWriter.writeWithMetadata(HoodieRowDataFileWriter.java:63)
at org.apache.hudi.io.BaseCreateHandle.writeRecordToFile(BaseCreateHandle.java:162)
at org.apache.hudi.io.BaseCreateHandle.doWrite(BaseCreateHandle.java:102)
... 28 more
Caused by: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException
at org.apache.flink.core.memory.MemorySegment.getLong(MemorySegment.java:935)
at org.apache.flink.table.data.binary.BinaryRowData.getTimestamp(BinaryRowData.java:351)
at org.apache.flink.table.data.utils.JoinedRowData.getTimestamp(JoinedRowData.java:203)
at org.apache.hudi.client.model.AbstractHoodieRowData.getTimestamp(AbstractHoodieRowData.java:129)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter$Timestamp64Writer.write(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:305)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter.write(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:93)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:69)
... 37 more
```
env2: write.memory.segment.page.size = 32, increate the `DATA_SET_INSERT_DUPLICATES` record size
```shell
org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieUpsertException: Failed to upsert for commit time 20260408122418316

at org.apache.hudi.table.action.commit.FlinkWriteHelper.write(FlinkWriteHelper.java:81)
at org.apache.hudi.table.action.commit.FlinkUpsertCommitActionExecutor.execute(FlinkUpsertCommitActionExecutor.java:53)
at org.apache.hudi.table.HoodieFlinkCopyOnWriteTable.upsert(HoodieFlinkCopyOnWriteTable.java:113)
at org.apache.hudi.client.HoodieFlinkWriteClient.upsert(HoodieFlinkWriteClient.java:223)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.StreamWriteFunction.lambda$initWriteFunction$514ba0a6$2(StreamWriteFunction.java:215)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.StreamWriteFunction$WriteFunction.write(StreamWriteFunction.java:516)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.StreamWriteFunction.writeRecords(StreamWriteFunction.java:445)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.StreamWriteFunction.flushBucket(StreamWriteFunction.java:381)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.StreamWriteFunction.bufferRecord(StreamWriteFunction.java:323)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.StreamWriteFunction.processElement(StreamWriteFunction.java:184)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.utils.StreamWriteFunctionWrapper.invoke(StreamWriteFunctionWrapper.java:215)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.utils.TestWriteBase$TestHarness.consume(TestWriteBase.java:191)
at org.apache.hudi.sink.TestWriteCopyOnWrite.testInsertWithSmallBufferSize(TestWriteCopyOnWrite.java:540)
at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:568)
at java.base/java.util.ArrayList.forEach(ArrayList.java:1511)
at java.base/java.util.ArrayList.forEach(ArrayList.java:1511)
Caused by: java.lang.RuntimeException: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException: pos: 1734698613, length: 1936089412, index: 1734698597, offset: 0
at org.apache.hudi.client.utils.LazyIterableIterator.next(LazyIterableIterator.java:123)
at java.base/java.util.Iterator.forEachRemaining(Iterator.java:133)
at org.apache.hudi.table.action.commit.BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.execute(BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.java:124)
at org.apache.hudi.table.action.commit.BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.execute(BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.java:103)
at org.apache.hudi.table.action.commit.BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.execute(BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.java:98)
at org.apache.hudi.table.action.commit.BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.execute(BaseFlinkCommitActionExecutor.java:65)
at org.apache.hudi.table.action.commit.FlinkWriteHelper.write(FlinkWriteHelper.java:74)
... 15 more
Caused by: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException: pos: 1734698613, length: 1936089412, index: 1734698597, offset: 0
at org.apache.hudi.execution.FlinkLazyInsertIterable.computeNext(FlinkLazyInsertIterable.java:69)
at org.apache.hudi.execution.FlinkLazyInsertIterable.computeNext(FlinkLazyInsertIterable.java:44)
at org.apache.hudi.client.utils.LazyIterableIterator.next(LazyIterableIterator.java:121)
... 21 more
Caused by: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException: pos: 1734698613, length: 1936089412, index: 1734698597, offset: 0
at org.apache.hudi.common.util.queue.SimpleExecutor.execute(SimpleExecutor.java:73)
at org.apache.hudi.execution.FlinkLazyInsertIterable.computeNext(FlinkLazyInsertIterable.java:65)
... 23 more
Caused by: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException: pos: 1734698613, length: 1936089412, index: 1734698597, offset: 0
at org.apache.hudi.io.BaseCreateHandle.doWrite(BaseCreateHandle.java:122)
at org.apache.hudi.io.HoodieWriteHandle.write(HoodieWriteHandle.java:240)
at org.apache.hudi.execution.ExplicitWriteHandler.consume(ExplicitWriteHandler.java:48)
at org.apache.hudi.execution.ExplicitWriteHandler.consume(ExplicitWriteHandler.java:34)
at org.apache.hudi.common.util.queue.SimpleExecutor.execute(SimpleExecutor.java:67)
... 24 more
Caused by: java.lang.RuntimeException: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException: pos: 1734698613, length: 1936089412, index: 1734698597, offset: 0
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:71)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:37)
at org.apache.parquet.hadoop.InternalParquetRecordWriter.write(InternalParquetRecordWriter.java:138)
at org.apache.parquet.hadoop.ParquetWriter.write(ParquetWriter.java:310)
at org.apache.hudi.io.hadoop.HoodieBaseParquetWriter.write(HoodieBaseParquetWriter.java:149)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.writeRow(HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.java:68)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.writeRowWithMetaData(HoodieRowDataParquetWriter.java:76)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.HoodieRowDataFileWriter.writeWithMetadata(HoodieRowDataFileWriter.java:63)
at org.apache.hudi.io.BaseCreateHandle.writeRecordToFile(BaseCreateHandle.java:162)
at org.apache.hudi.io.BaseCreateHandle.doWrite(BaseCreateHandle.java:102)
... 28 more
Caused by: java.lang.IndexOutOfBoundsException: pos: 1734698613, length: 1936089412, index: 1734698597, offset: 0
at org.apache.flink.core.memory.MemorySegment.get(MemorySegment.java:467)
at org.apache.flink.table.data.binary.BinarySegmentUtils.getBytes(BinarySegmentUtils.java:292)
at org.apache.flink.table.data.binary.BinaryStringData.toBytes(BinaryStringData.java:112)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter$StringWriter.write(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:255)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.parquet.ParquetRowDataWriter.write(ParquetRowDataWriter.java:93)
at org.apache.hudi.io.storage.row.RowDataParquetWriteSupport.write(RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java:69)
... 37 more
```

### Environment

**Hudi version:** 0.13.1/master
**Query engine:** (Spark/Flink/Trino etc) Flink
**Relevant configs:** write.memory.segment.page.size

### Logs and Stack Trace

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Start with TestWriteCopyOnWrite.testInsertWithSmallBufferSize using write.memory.segment.page.size=32, then trace the failures through RowDataParquetWriteSupport.java and ParquetRowDataWriter.java, especially the StringWriter and Timestamp64Writer paths named in the traces. Done means small-page writes no longer fail with NegativeArraySizeException or IndexOutOfBoundsException and the test continues to write data successfully.

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