Apply 'write.ignore.failed' when write data failed

## JIRA info

- Link: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-8400
- Type: Improvement
- Fix version(s):
- 1.2.0

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## Comments

30/Oct/24 06:42;fhan688;{quote}We should clarify these items:
# should we promote the {{write.ignore.failed}} option to a common write config for each engine? Previously each eagine has it's own options and behavior.
# should we throw the exception in write handles or in the driver(after the write status are collected);
# should this option by default false or true?{quote}

# I agree. {{write.ignore.failed}} is a config in FlinkOptions and we promote it to HoodieWriteConfig in hudi-client-common module and named 'hoodie.write.ignore.failed' in this PR.
# I think fast fail is a better choice. In heavy PRD traffic job, several minutes late means huge amounts of records needs to be dealt with when restore.
# false, consider data quality.;;;