Introduce a `.abort` state for abandoned commits and table services

We should support a new state `.abort` so that the commits and table service instants can be cancelled on the timeline (right now after clustering is scheduled, it cannot be cancelled).  In this way, we can filter out such instants without having to do rollbacks.  This ticket also involves making the new state `.abort` used by all writers and readers wrt timeline and FileSystem view so it works end-to-end.

## JIRA info

- Link: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-8189
- Type: Improvement
- Fix version(s):
- 1.1.0

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## Comments

12/Sep/24 01:53;guoyihua;[~shivnarayan] is going to propose the high-level design first before we go with the implementation.;;;

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03/Oct/24 01:41;shivnarayan;Please check https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-8291

for more details. ;;;