[SUPPORT] Hudi write taking more time for one partition in AWS glue occasionally

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**Describe the problem you faced**

We are running a glue job to write 2 hudi tables. It is an hourly job. It usually takes around 10-12 mins. But, occasionally we are seeing the job taking more than 25 mins. When deep dived into it, the count stage of Doing partition and writing data is taking more time for one partition even when the number of records is less. Please note that we are getting 100k records to 200k records on an average every hour. We could not find any specific patterns on which partition the issue is happening


**To Reproduce**

hudi_options = {
"hoodie.datasource.write.partitionpath.urlencode": "true",
'hoodie.datasource.write.table.type': 'COPY_ON_WRITE',
'hoodie.datasource.write.reconcile.schema': 'true',
'hoodie.schema.on.read.enable': 'true',
'hoodie.table.base.file.format': 'PARQUET',
'hoodie.parquet.compression.codec': 'snappy',
"hoodie.datasource.write.hive_style_partitioning": "true",
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.enable": "true",
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.partition_extractor_class": "org.apache.hudi.hive.MultiPartKeysValueExtractor",
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.use_jdbc": "false",
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.mode": "hms",
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.support_timestamp": "true",
'hoodie.parquet.max.file.size': '125829120',
'hoodie.parquet.small.file.limit': '104857600',
'hoodie.copyonwrite.record.size.estimate': '5120'
}

def write_df_to_hudi(df, target_path, partition_key_column, database, table_name, primary_key, mode='append',
timestamp_column_name='timestamp'):

hudi_options.update(
{
'hoodie.table.name': table_name,
'hoodie.datasource.write.recordkey.field': primary_key,
'hoodie.datasource.write.partitionpath.field': partition_key_column,
'hoodie.datasource.write.precombine.field': timestamp_column_name,
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.database": database,
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.table": table_name,
"hoodie.datasource.hive_sync.partition_fields": partition_key_column,

})
df.write.format('org.apache.hudi') \
.option('hoodie.datasource.write.operation', 'INSERT') \
.options(**hudi_options).mode(mode).save(target_path)

**Expected behavior**

We are looking for consistent run times or it should be directly associated with the number of records.

**Environment Description**

* Hudi version :0.12.1

* Spark version : 3.3

* Hive version :

* Hadoop version :

* Storage (HDFS/S3/GCS..) : s3

* Running on Docker? (yes/no) : no

Start with the provided write_df_to_hudi function and the AWS Glue job's partition-count and write-stage metrics. Compare slow and normal runs, including the affected partition and Hudi options, then identify a reproducible cause or the evidence needed for an actionable fix.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.