[SUPPORT] Setting hoodie.datasource.insert.dup.policy to drop still upserts the record in 0.14

**Describe the problem you faced**

If my incoming dataset already has a record which already exists in the hudi table, hudi is still updating the commit time and treating it as update even after setting 'hoodie.datasource.insert.dup.policy': 'drop',

**To Reproduce**

Steps to reproduce the behavior:

```
recordkey = "id,name"
precombine = "uuid"
method = "upsert"
table_type = "COPY_ON_WRITE"

hudi_options = {
'hoodie.table.name': table_name,
'hoodie.datasource.write.recordkey.field': recordkey,
'hoodie.datasource.insert.dup.policy': 'drop',
'hoodie.datasource.write.table.name': table_name,
'hoodie.datasource.write.operation': method,
'hoodie.datasource.write.precombine.field': precombine,
'hoodie.table.cdc.enabled':'true',
'hoodie.table.cdc.supplemental.logging.mode': 'data_before_after',
}

spark_df = spark.createDataFrame(
data=[
(1, "John", 1, False),
(2, "Doe", 2, False),
],
schema=["id", "name", "val", "_hoodie_is_deleted"])

from pyspark.sql.functions import sha2, concat_ws

record_key_col_array = recordkey.split(",")
record_key_col_array
spark_df = spark_df.withColumn("uuid", sha2(concat_ws("||", *record_key_col_array), 256))

spark_df.write.format("hudi"). \
options(**hudi_options). \
mode("overwrite"). \
save(path)

df = spark. \
read. \
format("hudi"). \
load(path)

df.select(['_hoodie_commit_time', 'id', 'name', 'val']).show()

+-------------------+---+----+---+
|_hoodie_commit_time| id|name|val|
+-------------------+---+----+---+
| 20240211155820562| 1|John| 1|
| 20240211155820562| 2| Doe| 2|
+-------------------+---+----+---+

spark_df = spark.createDataFrame(
data=[
(1, "John", 1, False)
],
schema=["id", "name", "val", "_hoodie_is_deleted"])
spark_df = spark_df.withColumn("uuid", sha2(concat_ws("||", *record_key_col_array), 256))

spark_df.write.format("hudi"). \
options(**hudi_options). \
mode("append"). \
save(path)

# read latest data

df = spark. \
read. \
format("hudi"). \
load(path)

df.select(['_hoodie_commit_time', 'id', 'name', 'val']).show()

+-------------------+---+----+---+
|_hoodie_commit_time| id|name|val|
+-------------------+---+----+---+
| 20240211155914976| 1|John| 1| ---> Commit time has updated even though record did not change.
| 20240211155820562| 2| Doe| 2|
+-------------------+---+----+---+

# query cdc data
cdc_read_options = {
'hoodie.datasource.query.incremental.format': 'cdc',
'hoodie.datasource.query.type': 'incremental',
'hoodie.datasource.read.begin.instanttime': latest_commmit_ts
# 'hoodie.datasource.read.end.instanttime': 20240208210952160,
}
df=spark.read.format("hudi"). \
options(**cdc_read_options). \
load(path)

df.show(2,False)

+---+-----------------+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
|op |ts_ms |before |after |
+---+-----------------+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+
|u |20240211155914976|{"id": 1, "name": "John", "val": 1, "_hoodie_is_deleted": false, "uuid": "46ca69f145f50f414b7a8cd59656f4935a5162798f093edc708a1ba21c0e9c26"}|{"id": 1, "name": "John", "val": 1, "_hoodie_is_deleted": false, "uuid": "46ca69f145f50f414b7a8cd59656f4935a5162798f093edc708a1ba21c0e9c26"}|
+---+-----------------+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------+

```
**Expected behavior**

Since no updates were made to any records, hudi should not report any updates when performing cdc query

**Environment Description**

* Hudi version : 0.14

* Spark version : 3.3.0-amzn-1

* Storage (HDFS/S3/GCS..) : s3

* Running on Docker? (yes/no) : no

Start by running the supplied Spark 3.3.0 reproduction against Hudi 0.14 on S3, focusing on the insert duplicate-policy and CDC query options shown. Done means appending an identical record with policy drop does not advance its commit time or emit an update in the incremental CDC query.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.