[VL] Cannot allocate memory in static TLS block

### Backend

VL (Velox)

### Bug description

Hi, I'm trying to execute Velox Spark jobs on arm64 instances (aws graviton), but running into the error `cannot allocate memory in static TLS block`.

### Spark version

Spark-3.2.x

### Spark configurations

_No response_

### System information

Instance: r6gd.16xlarge

### Relevant logs

```text
Exception in thread "main" java.lang.UnsatisfiedLinkError: /tmp/spark-local-dir/gluten-xxxx/jni/.../linux/aarch64/libvelox.so: /tmp/spark-local-dir/gluten-xxx/jni/.../gluten-xxxx/linux/aarch64/libgluten.so: cannot allocate memory in static TLS block

at java.base/java.lang.ClassLoader$NativeLibrary.load0(Native Method)

at java.base/java.lang.ClassLoader$NativeLibrary.load(ClassLoader.java:2450)

at java.base/java.lang.ClassLoader$NativeLibrary.loadLibrary(ClassLoader.java:2506)

at java.base/java.lang.ClassLoader.loadLibrary0(ClassLoader.java:2705)

at java.base/java.lang.ClassLoader.loadLibrary(ClassLoader.java:2635)

at java.base/java.lang.Runtime.load0(Runtime.java:768)

at java.base/java.lang.System.load(System.java:1854)

at org.apache.gluten.jni.JniLibLoader.loadFromPath0(JniLibLoader.java:96)

at org.apache.gluten.jni.JniLibLoader.loadWithLink(JniLibLoader.java:219)

at org.apache.gluten.jni.JniLibLoader.load(JniLibLoader.java:169)

at org.apache.gluten.backendsapi.velox.VeloxListenerApi.initialize(VeloxListenerApi.scala:157)

at org.apache.gluten.backendsapi.velox.VeloxListenerApi.onDriverStart(VeloxListenerApi.scala:93)

at org.apache.gluten.backendsapi.SubstraitBackend.onDriverStart(SubstraitBackend.scala:27)

at org.apache.gluten.backendsapi.SubstraitBackend.onDriverStart$(SubstraitBackend.scala:26)

at org.apache.gluten.backendsapi.velox.VeloxBackend.onDriverStart(VeloxBackend.scala:53)

at org.apache.gluten.GlutenDriverPlugin.init(GlutenPlugin.scala:71)

at org.apache.spark.internal.plugin.DriverPluginContainer.$anonfun$driverPlugins$1(PluginContainer.scala:53)

at scala.collection.TraversableLike.$anonfun$flatMap$1(TraversableLike.scala:245)

at scala.collection.mutable.ResizableArray.foreach(ResizableArray.scala:62)

at scala.collection.mutable.ResizableArray.foreach$(ResizableArray.scala:55)

at scala.collection.mutable.ArrayBuffer.foreach(ArrayBuffer.scala:49)

at scala.collection.TraversableLike.flatMap(TraversableLike.scala:245)

at scala.collection.TraversableLike.flatMap$(TraversableLike.scala:242)

at scala.collection.AbstractTraversable.flatMap(Traversable.scala:108)

at org.apache.spark.internal.plugin.DriverPluginContainer.(PluginContainer.scala:46)

at org.apache.spark.internal.plugin.PluginContainer$.apply(PluginContainer.scala:210)

at org.apache.spark.internal.plugin.PluginContainer$.apply(PluginContainer.scala:193)

at org.apache.spark.SparkContext.(SparkContext.scala:576)

at org.apache.spark.SparkContext$.getOrCreate(SparkContext.scala:2772)

at org.apache.spark.sql.SparkSession$Builder.$anonfun$getOrCreate$2(SparkSession.scala:950)

at scala.Option.getOrElse(Option.scala:189)

at org.apache.spark.sql.SparkSession$Builder.getOrCreate(SparkSession.scala:944)

at org.apache.spark.sql.hive.thriftserver.SparkSQLEnv$.init(SparkSQLEnv.scala:54)

at org.apache.spark.sql.hive.thriftserver.SparkSQLCLIDriver.(SparkSQLCLIDriver.scala:333)

at org.apache.spark.sql.hive.thriftserver.SparkSQLCLIDriver$.main(SparkSQLCLIDriver.scala:160)

at org.apache.spark.sql.hive.thriftserver.SparkSQLCLIDriver.main(SparkSQLCLIDriver.scala)

at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke0(Native Method)

at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.NativeMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(NativeMethodAccessorImpl.java:62)

at java.base/jdk.internal.reflect.DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.java:43)

at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:566)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.JavaMainApplication.start(SparkApplication.scala:52)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.SparkSubmit.org$apache$spark$deploy$SparkSubmit$$runMain(SparkSubmit.scala:1005)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.SparkSubmit.doRunMain$1(SparkSubmit.scala:180)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.SparkSubmit.submit(SparkSubmit.scala:203)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.SparkSubmit.doSubmit(SparkSubmit.scala:90)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.SparkSubmit$$anon$2.doSubmit(SparkSubmit.scala:1093)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.SparkSubmit$.main(SparkSubmit.scala:1102)

at org.apache.spark.deploy.SparkSubmit.main(SparkSubmit.scala)

```

Start with the native-library loading paths in JniLibLoader.java and VeloxListenerApi.scala, then reproduce the failure using the reported Spark 3.2.x setup on an arm64 AWS instance. Trace loading of libgluten.so and libvelox.so and confirm that Velox Spark jobs start successfully without the static TLS allocation error.

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