[VL] Setting higher value of Broadcast Hash Join threshold is degrading the performance of Spark with Gluten

### Backend

VL (Velox)

### Bug description

Setup: Running TPCDS benchmark on spark with gluten.

With increasing broadcast hash join threshold, the performance of TPCDS benchmark degrades (config: `spark.sql.autoBroadcastJoinThreshold`).

Config-Value|TPCDS Total Time Taken
-|-
10MB|795sec
50MB|870sec
100MB|890sec

We have jobs with BHJ threshold set to 200MB in vanilla spark. Such jobs are not showing any gains with Spark+Gluten.

### Spark version

Spark-3.5.x

### Spark configurations

`spark.sql.autoBroadcastJoinThreshold`

### System information

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### Relevant logs

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