Run `jstack` against Spark Driver process failed on MacOS M1

### Backend

VL (Velox)

### Bug description

Launch spark-sql in local mode and run `jstack` against it:
```
export gluten_jar=/Users/zhouyifan/git/incubator-gluten/package/target/gluten-velox-bundle-spark3.5_2.12-osx_14.4_aarch_64-1.2.0-SNAPSHOT.jar

./bin/spark-sql \
--conf spark.plugins=org.apache.gluten.GlutenPlugin \
--conf spark.memory.offHeap.enabled=true \
--conf spark.memory.offHeap.size=20g \
--conf spark.driver.extraClassPath=${gluten_jar} \
--conf spark.executor.extraClassPath=${gluten_jar} \
--conf spark.shuffle.manager=org.apache.spark.shuffle.sort.ColumnarShuffleManager
```
`jstack` exits with error message
```
74551: Unable to open socket file /var/folders/yj/25xqj6_52n51xmctftgl_77c0000gn/T/.attach_pid74551: target process 74551 doesn't respond within 10500ms or HotSpot VM not loaded
```

### Spark version

spark-3.5.1-bin-hadoop3

### Spark configurations

_No response_

### System information

JDK
```
openjdk version "1.8.0_402"
OpenJDK Runtime Environment (Zulu 8.76.0.17-CA-macos-aarch64) (build 1.8.0_402-b06)
OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM (Zulu 8.76.0.17-CA-macos-aarch64) (build 25.402-b06, mixed mode)
```

System
```
Velox System Info v0.0.2
Commit: 82e50ab196caff398013a3e76ca3b854a1156243
CMake Version: 3.29.3
System: Darwin-23.4.0
Arch: arm64
C++ Compiler: /Applications/Xcode.app/Contents/Developer/Toolchains/XcodeDefault.xctoolchain/usr/bin/c++
C++ Compiler Version: 15.0.0.15000309
C Compiler: /Applications/Xcode.app/Contents/Developer/Toolchains/XcodeDefault.xctoolchain/usr/bin/cc
C Compiler Version: 15.0.0.15000309
CMake Prefix Path: /Applications/Xcode.app/Contents/Developer/Platforms/MacOSX.platform/Developer/SDKs/MacOSX14.4.sdk/usr;/opt/homebrew;/usr/local;/usr;/;/opt/homebrew/Cellar/cmake/3.29.3;/usr/local;/usr/X11R6;/usr/pkg;/opt;/sw;/opt/local
```

### Relevant logs

_No response_