Lance-spark support in Gluten

### Description

To add Lance read/write support, we have two ways:

- Use lance connector in Velox, offload the whole read/write operator to velox plan https://github.com/facebookincubator/velox/pull/16556
- Use lance-spark datasource. To read, gluten gets the arrow data from spark-spark, fwd to velox pipeline. To write, gluten gets the velox data from Velox, converts it as arrow, fwd to lance-spark. No C2R/R2C conversion in the whole process

We are going to try lance-spark as the preferred way.

### Gluten version

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