[VL][CI] Reduce redundancy in Spark 3.5 SMJ test workflows

### Description

Currently, there are two Spark 3.5 test jobs dedicated for testing SMJ. The entire Spark 3.5 tests are run but most of them are not related to SMJ logic. This creates unnecessary redundancy. We may consider to pick up a few related test suites for validation.

### Gluten version

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Start by locating the two Spark 3.5 SMJ test jobs and compare the suites they execute. Identify the suites relevant to SMJ validation, then update the workflow so it avoids redundant full Spark 3.5 runs and verify the revised jobs in CI.

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