[Feature] I want eventmesh to support tcp client connection failover

### Search before asking

- [X] I had searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/eventmesh/issues?q=is%3Aissue) and found no similar issues.

### Feature Request

I want eventmesh to support tcp client connection failover;
1.The tcp client can dynamically update the cached eventmesh endpoint address lis
2.When the eventmesh endpoint to which the tcp client is connected goes down, you can choose to reconnect to another normal endpoint；
3..When a tcp client selects an eventmesh endpoint, eventmesh can provide the recommended endpoint for the tcp client to establish a connection

### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

Start by tracing the TCP client’s endpoint cache, connection handling, and endpoint-selection entry points. Determine how endpoint lists are updated and how a failed connection is handled today. Done should include dynamic endpoint updates, reconnecting to a healthy endpoint after failure, and a mechanism for EventMesh to recommend an endpoint.

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