消费端需要启动两次No provider available for the service

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### Environment

* Dubbo version: 3.0.2-SNAPSHOT
* Operating System version: maos
* Java version: jdk15

### 复现步骤

1. 先启动服务端
2. 启动消费端（check=false）
3. 调用接口消费服务报500错误，停止消费端服务(服务端保持开启)再重新启动 接口又访问正常。我每次服务重启一次，消费端都要这样重启两次才可以。
### 配置文件(provider和consumer 的dubbo配置方式相同)
dubbo:
consumer:
check: false
registry:
address: nacos://${nacos.host}:${nacos.port}/?username=${nacos.username}&password=${nacos.password}
application:
register-mode: instance
service-discovery:
migration: FORCE_APPLICATION
name: userConsumer

Pls. provide [GitHub address] to reproduce this issue.

### Expected Result

What do you expected from the above steps？

### Actual Result

What actually happens?

消费端异常消息如下:

Failed to invoke the method addUser in the service com.api.study.UserService. No provider available for the service com.api.study.UserService from registry 127.0.0.1:8848 on the consumer 172.16.11.8 using the dubbo version 3.0.2-SNAPSHOT. Please check if the providers have been started and registered.
Just put your stack trace here!
```

Start by reproducing the listed provider/consumer startup sequence with Dubbo 3.0.2-SNAPSHOT, JDK 15, Nacos, and the shown configuration, then trace the consumer's service-discovery and registry lookup path. Done means the first invocation succeeds after the provider starts, without restarting the consumer; add a regression test if the relevant test location can be identified.

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