[Bug] RpcException with no provider avaliable messages will be thrown if the newly dubbo reference is immediately called.

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### Apache Dubbo Component

Java SDK (apache/dubbo)

### Dubbo Version

3.2.12

### Steps to reproduce this issue

1. delete local registry cache files.
2. build a springboot app that has ```@DubboReference(check = false)``` to provider A.
3. create dynamic reference to provider B when the state of DubboApplicationStateEvent is started.
```
ReferenceConfig referenceConfig = new ReferenceConfig<>();
referenceConfig.setInterface(ProviderB.class);
referenceConfig.setVersion("...");
referenceConfig.setGroup("...");
referenceConfig.setCheck(false);
referenceConfig.setAsync(true);
// using DubboBootstrap.getInstance() as the single instance is already created.
ProviderB providerB = DubboBootstrap.getInstance().getCache().get(referenceConfig);
```
4. call any method of providerB immediatly.

### What you expected to happen

ReferenceCache shoud provide a get method with timeout paramter to pull the provider instance info from the registry center at the reference creation.

### Anything else

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a pull request to fix on your own?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a pull request on my own!

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