[Bug] application shutdown report error：java.lang.IllegalStateException: Shutdown in progress

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### Apache Dubbo Component

Java SDK (apache/dubbo)

### Dubbo Version

Dubbo Java 3.2.14, JDK 17

### Steps to reproduce this issue

When shutdown dubbo spring-boot application, some times report this error：
```
2024-07-12 01:00:39.369 WARN [SpringApplicationShutdownHook] o.a.d.common.logger.log4j2.Log4j2Logger#warn(L:86) -> [DUBBO] unregister shutdown hook failed: Shutdown in progress, dubbo version: 3.2.14, current host: 172.18.0.15, error code: 5-2. This may be caused by , go to https://dubbo.apache.org/faq/5/2 to find instructions.
java.lang.IllegalStateException: Shutdown in progress
at java.base/java.lang.ApplicationShutdownHooks.remove(Unknown Source) ~[?:?]
at java.base/java.lang.Runtime.removeShutdownHook(Unknown Source) ~[?:?]
at org.apache.dubbo.config.DubboShutdownHook.unregister(DubboShutdownHook.java:171) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultApplicationDeployer.unRegisterShutdownHook(DefaultApplicationDeployer.java:182) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultApplicationDeployer.preDestroy(DefaultApplicationDeployer.java:1063) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ApplicationModel.onDestroy(ApplicationModel.java:155) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ScopeModel.destroy(ScopeModel.java:122) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ApplicationModel.tryDestroy(ApplicationModel.java:276) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ModuleModel.onDestroy(ModuleModel.java:133) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ScopeModel.destroy(ScopeModel.java:122) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.context.DubboDeployApplicationListener.onContextClosedEvent(DubboDeployApplicationListener.java:189) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.context.DubboDeployApplicationListener.onApplicationEvent(DubboDeployApplicationListener.java:145) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.context.DubboDeployApplicationListener.onApplicationEvent(DubboDeployApplicationListener.java:52) ~[dubbo-3.2.14.jar!/:3.2.14]
at org.springframework.context.event.SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.doInvokeListener(SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.java:185) ~[spring-context-6.1.10.jar!/:6.1.10]
at org.springframework.context.event.SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.invokeListener(SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.java:178) ~[spring-context-6.1.10.jar!/:6.1.10]
at org.springframework.context.event.SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.multicastEvent(SimpleApplicationEventMulticaster.java:156) ~[spring-context-6.1.10.jar!/:6.1.10]
at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.publishEvent(AbstractApplicationContext.java:451) ~[spring-context-6.1.10.jar!/:6.1.10]
at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.publishEvent(AbstractApplicationContext.java:384) ~[spring-context-6.1.10.jar!/:6.1.10]
at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.doClose(AbstractApplicationContext.java:1130) ~[spring-context-6.1.10.jar!/:6.1.10]
at org.springframework.boot.web.servlet.context.ServletWebServerApplicationContext.doClose(ServletWebServerApplicationContext.java:174) ~[spring-boot-3.2.7.jar!/:3.2.7]
at org.springframework.context.support.AbstractApplicationContext.close(AbstractApplicationContext.java:1093) ~[spring-context-6.1.10.jar!/:6.1.10]
at org.springframework.boot.SpringApplicationShutdownHook.closeAndWait(SpringApplicationShutdownHook.java:145) ~[spring-boot-3.2.7.jar!/:3.2.7]
at java.base/java.lang.Iterable.forEach(Unknown Source) ~[?:?]
at org.springframework.boot.SpringApplicationShutdownHook.run(SpringApplicationShutdownHook.java:114) ~[spring-boot-3.2.7.jar!/:3.2.7]
at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source) [?:?]
```

### What you expected to happen

don't report error

### Anything else

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a pull request to fix on your own?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a pull request on my own!

### Code of Conduct

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Start with DubboShutdownHook.unregister and DefaultApplicationDeployer.preDestroy, then follow the SpringApplicationShutdownHook and DubboDeployApplicationListener shutdown path shown in the stack trace. Reproduce application shutdown with Dubbo 3.2.14 on JDK 17 and verify that the shutdown completes without reporting the IllegalStateException or the unregister-shutdown-hook warning.

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