[dubbo-spi-extensions] Update the extended serialization libraries in 3.3.0 to the latest versions.

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### Apache Dubbo Component

Java SPI Extensions (apache/dubbo-spi-extensions)

### Descriptions

Update to the latest versions to support JDK 17 and 21

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No files, tests, or specific serialization libraries are named. Start by locating the Java SPI extension dependency declarations and checking their compatibility with JDK 17 and 21. Done means the extended serialization libraries are updated to current compatible versions and the relevant build or compatibility checks pass.

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