Observability task, adding the reject task indicator for thread pool burying point

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## Describe the proposal

EN:
Observability task, adding the reject task indicator for thread pool burying point
When the thread pool executes tasks that exceed the maximum number of threads (including queues), it will generate an exception that rejects execution. The indicator of this exception needs to be collected and displayed in the dashboard monitoring

中文：
可观测性任务，为线程池埋点增加拒绝任务指标
线程池在执行任务超过最大线程总数之后（包含队列）会产生拒绝执行的异常，这个异常的指标是需要采集到并展示在dashboard监控之中的