[Bug] jemalloc 5.3.0 muzzy decay performance bug

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### Version

ALL

### What's Wrong?

jemalloc 5.3.0 has a bug where muzzy_decay_ms values other than -1 cause severe performance degradation (up to 7x slower in Polars benchmarks)

### What You Expected?

update jemalloc 5.3.1 to fix muzzy decay performance bug

### How to Reproduce?

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### Anything Else?

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [x] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

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