[Bug] compaction 过程中如果有 balance 或者其他能导致state change 。导致无法compaction

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- [x] I had searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/doris/issues?q=is%3Aissue) and found no similar issues.

### Version

所有版本

### What's Wrong?

auto st = thread_pool->submit_func([tablet, compaction = std::move(compaction),
compaction_type, permits, force, this]() {
if (!tablet->can_do_compaction(tablet->data_dir()->path_hash(), compaction_type)) {
LOG(INFO) << "Tablet state has been changed, no need to begin this compaction "
"task, tablet_id="
<< tablet->tablet_id() << "tablet_state=" << tablet->tablet_state();
return;
}
tablet->compaction_stage = CompactionStage::EXECUTING;
TEST_SYNC_POINT_RETURN_WITH_VOID("olap_server::execute_compaction");
tablet->execute_compaction(*compaction);
if (!force) {
_permit_limiter.release(permits);
}
_pop_tablet_from_submitted_compaction(tablet, compaction_type);
tablet->compaction_stage = CompactionStage::NOT_SCHEDULED;
});

[olap_server.cpp](https://github.com/user-attachments/files/26301590/olap_server.cpp) 1016行。

### What You Expected?

修复一下吧，这个bug找了一天了😂。在提供一下生产中遇到这个问题不升级的解决方案吧。

### How to Reproduce?

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### Anything Else?

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [x] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

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