[Enhancement] 编译包排除spark 中已经有的jar

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建议编译包排除spark 中已经有的jar，例如jackson，org.apache.commons等

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Start by locating the Spark connector's build and packaging configuration, then identify how dependencies such as jackson and org.apache.commons are currently included in the compiled package. Compare that package with Spark's provided libraries and define which duplicate JARs should be excluded. Done means the package omits the agreed duplicates without breaking connector dependency resolution.

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