[Feature] 打包至maven中央仓库取消shaded

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### Description

maven中直接通过一下版本引入项目后发现,下载的jar中带有多个依赖的class文件, 导致与项目中其他依赖冲突,且无法通过maven exclusive进行冲突解决

org.apache.doris
flink-doris-connector-1.19
24.0.1


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Start by locating the Maven packaging configuration for the flink-doris-connector-1.19 artifact and inspect how shaded dependencies are included in version 24.0.1. Check the built JAR and its dependency metadata; done means the published artifact no longer embeds dependency classes while remaining usable through declared dependencies.

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