[Bug] 使用 flink-doris-connector 版本写入doris 2.1.6时，当一个be节点长时间失联时，flink job失败且无法从checkpoint恢复

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### Version

flink1.14.4 flink-doris-connector-1.14 1.1.1 版本写入doris 2.1.6

### What's Wrong?

使用 flink1.14.4 flink-doris-connector-1.14 1.1.1 版本写入doris 2.1.6当一个be节点长时间失联时，flink job失败且无法从checkpoint恢复。
核心报错如下：
2024-10-12 14:13:48,049 ERROR org.apache.doris.flink.sink.committer.DorisCommitter [] - commit transaction failed:
org.apache.http.conn.HttpHostConnectException: Connect to 10.126.72.64:8040 [/10.126.72.64] failed: Connection refused (Connection
refused)
at org.apache.http.impl.conn.DefaultHttpClientConnectionOperator.connect(DefaultHttpClientConnectionOperator.java:156) ~[
blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.conn.PoolingHttpClientConnectionManager.connect(PoolingHttpClientConnectionManager.java:374) ~[bl
ob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.execchain.MainClientExec.establishRoute(MainClientExec.java:393) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c65
75ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.execchain.MainClientExec.execute(MainClientExec.java:236) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc
48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.execchain.ProtocolExec.execute(ProtocolExec.java:186) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc48af
8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.execchain.RetryExec.execute(RetryExec.java:89) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc48af8a4b1f-
139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.execchain.RedirectExec.execute(RedirectExec.java:110) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc48af
8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.client.InternalHttpClient.doExecute(InternalHttpClient.java:185) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c65
75ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.client.CloseableHttpClient.execute(CloseableHttpClient.java:83) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c657
5ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.client.CloseableHttpClient.execute(CloseableHttpClient.java:108) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c65
75ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.doris.flink.sink.committer.DorisCommitter.commitTransaction(DorisCommitter.java:91) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc11
1cc844c6575ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.doris.flink.sink.committer.DorisCommitter.commit(DorisCommitter.java:71) ~[blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575
ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.operators.sink.StreamingCommitterHandler.commit(StreamingCommitterHandler.java:54)
~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.operators.sink.AbstractStreamingCommitterHandler.retry(AbstractStreamingCommitterHa
ndler.java:99) ~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.operators.sink.AbstractCommitterHandler.retry(AbstractCommitterHandler.java:66) ~[f
link-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.operators.sink.CommitRetrier.retry(CommitRetrier.java:80) ~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.
jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.operators.sink.CommitRetrier.lambda$retryAt$0(CommitRetrier.java:63) ~[flink-dist_2
.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTask.invokeProcessingTimeCallback(StreamTask.java:1693) ~[flink-dist_2.
11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTask.lambda$null$22(StreamTask.java:1684) ~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:
1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTaskActionExecutor$1.runThrowing(StreamTaskActionExecutor.java:50) ~[fl
ink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.mailbox.Mail.run(Mail.java:90) ~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.mailbox.MailboxProcessor.processMailsWhenDefaultActionUnavailable(MailboxProc
essor.java:338) ~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.mailbox.MailboxProcessor.processMail(MailboxProcessor.java:324) ~[flink-dist_
2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.mailbox.MailboxProcessor.runMailboxLoop(MailboxProcessor.java:201) ~[flink-di
st_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTask.runMailboxLoop(StreamTask.java:809) ~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1
.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.streaming.runtime.tasks.StreamTask.invoke(StreamTask.java:761) ~[flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.runWithSystemExitMonitoring(Task.java:958) [flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.
4]
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.restoreAndInvoke(Task.java:937) [flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.doRun(Task.java:766) [flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at org.apache.flink.runtime.taskmanager.Task.run(Task.java:575) [flink-dist_2.11-1.14.4.jar:1.14.4]
at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:750) [?:1.8.0_322]
Caused by: java.net.ConnectException: Connection refused (Connection refused)
at java.net.PlainSocketImpl.socketConnect(Native Method) ~[?:1.8.0_322]
at java.net.AbstractPlainSocketImpl.doConnect(AbstractPlainSocketImpl.java:350) ~[?:1.8.0_322]
at java.net.AbstractPlainSocketImpl.connectToAddress(AbstractPlainSocketImpl.java:206) ~[?:1.8.0_322]
at java.net.AbstractPlainSocketImpl.connect(AbstractPlainSocketImpl.java:188) ~[?:1.8.0_322]
at java.net.SocksSocketImpl.connect(SocksSocketImpl.java:392) ~[?:1.8.0_322]
at java.net.Socket.connect(Socket.java:607) ~[?:1.8.0_322]
at org.apache.http.conn.socket.PlainConnectionSocketFactory.connectSocket(PlainConnectionSocketFactory.java:75) ~[blob_p-
61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]
at org.apache.http.impl.conn.DefaultHttpClientConnectionOperator.connect(DefaultHttpClientConnectionOperator.java:142) ~[
blob_p-61f0320fe7cc111cc844c6575ef7cc48af8a4b1f-139883e44a5481fda2030ca9306e6ec8:?]

看起来是从checkpoint恢复时，读取的host还是故障节点ip，所以访问连接不上

### What You Expected?

我们没法升级flink1.14这个环境，请问 flink-doris-connector-1.14 1.1.1版本这个问题可以修复下吗？系统对高可用较高，be节点当磁盘故障时，无法短时间恢复，那么这个问题就肯定会复现。

### How to Reproduce?

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### Anything Else?

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://www.apache.org/foundation/policies/conduct)

Start with org.apache.doris.flink.sink.committer.DorisCommitter.java, especially commitTransaction, and trace how Flink 1.14.4 checkpoint recovery handles a failed BE address. Reproduce with connector 1.1.1, Doris 2.1.6, and one unavailable BE; done means the job can recover without continuing to use the failed node address.

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