Config the length of list when using In_list on parquet, rather than a const of 20.

### Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

When I use In_list Expr, if the legth of list is 19, it used 6 ms. but when the length grows to 20, it used 200ms.

### Describe the solution you'd like

in [build_predicate_expression](https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/blob/main/datafusion/core/src/physical_optimizer/pruning.rs#L775) listExpr pruning down only in `in_list.list().len() < 20`

I want to config the value.

### Describe alternatives you've considered

I think.
add a config in [ParquetOptions](https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/blob/main/datafusion/common/src/config.rs#L281) and [ParquetExec](https://github.com/apache/arrow-datafusion/blob/main/datafusion/core/src/datasource/physical_plan/parquet/mod.rs#L75C19-L75C19)

but I also think that is ugly, Is there a more elegant implementation?

### Additional context

_No response_

Start in datafusion/core/src/physical_optimizer/pruning.rs at build_predicate_expression and trace how the in-list length threshold controls pruning. Then inspect ParquetOptions in datafusion/common/src/config.rs and ParquetExec in datafusion/core/src/datasource/physical_plan/parquet/mod.rs. Done means the threshold is configurable without losing the intended pruning behavior, with list lengths around the configured value checked for the reported performance difference.

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